Comments on: IS THE WORLD EASIER FOR PRETTY PEOPLE? http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/ Just another WordPress weblog Sun, 21 Mar 2010 01:56:02 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: James http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/comment-page-1/#comment-12 James Thu, 29 Oct 2009 03:08:07 +0000 http://nicolearbour.com/?p=173#comment-12 i hate to say this. pretty girls, esp. blondes are more valued by men and society. you're a blonde. so, i don't think you fully realize the disadvantages of being unattractive. beauty is highly valued. i'm not white. i'm an asian guy and i can tell you there're alot of asian women who would kill to look blonde and only date/marry a white guy to have mixed/white/blonde looking kids. why? b/c tall blonde is the most beautiful and valuable. also, you can do this experiment to really understand what's like to be unattractive. you can pretend/setup a fake asian guy or girl online profile on plentyoffish dating site and try to use your "sense of humor" to get just one date with a real blonde. i'm curious to know if you can succeed at this or not. pls let me know the result if u do take up this challenge. thanks. i hate to say this. pretty girls, esp. blondes are more valued by men and society. you’re a blonde. so, i don’t think you fully realize the disadvantages of being unattractive. beauty is highly valued.

i’m not white. i’m an asian guy and i can tell you there’re alot of asian women who would kill to look blonde and only date/marry a white guy to have mixed/white/blonde looking kids. why? b/c tall blonde is the most beautiful and valuable.

also, you can do this experiment to really understand what’s like to be unattractive. you can pretend/setup a fake asian guy or girl online profile on plentyoffish dating site and try to use your “sense of humor” to get just one date with a real blonde. i’m curious to know if you can succeed at this or not. pls let me know the result if u do take up this challenge. thanks.

]]> By: Nicole Arbour http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Nicole Arbour Tue, 20 Oct 2009 00:36:36 +0000 http://nicolearbour.com/?p=173#comment-9 You MUST be joking Andrew... it is NOT new news that somehow when I turned 19 peeps started saying I was cute... prior.. I was the dork of the world, total Lisa Simpson, overachiever to the max. I've spent the last 8 years seeing how the other side lives now, and that's fully what my blog is based on. AND, I just went full retard in a movie. What more do you want of me! :) You MUST be joking Andrew… it is NOT new news that somehow when I turned 19 peeps started saying I was cute… prior.. I was the dork of the world, total Lisa Simpson, overachiever to the max. I’ve spent the last 8 years seeing how the other side lives now, and that’s fully what my blog is based on.
AND, I just went full retard in a movie. What more do you want of me!
:)

]]> By: Andrew http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Andrew Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:53:09 +0000 http://nicolearbour.com/?p=173#comment-6 Well, Nicole, that was an interesting analysis of attractive vs. unattractive people. But I still think life is easier for attractive people. So why don't you put your money where your mouth is, and walk your talk? Make yourself look butt-ugly for a month, and see how you like it! Hey, Charlize Theron did it when she played a serial killer (who happened to be an ugly b*tch)...and Charlize won an Oscar for that role, didn't she? There you go. It would be a fascinating experiment, to go through life looking ugly for a month, and see how the other half lives. Go for it! Then write a blog about your experience. Well, Nicole, that was an interesting analysis of attractive vs. unattractive people. But I still think life is easier for attractive people. So why don’t you put your money where your mouth is, and walk your talk? Make yourself look butt-ugly for a month, and see how you like it! Hey, Charlize Theron did it when she played a serial killer (who happened to be an ugly b*tch)…and Charlize won an Oscar for that role, didn’t she? There you go. It would be a fascinating experiment, to go through life looking ugly for a month, and see how the other half lives. Go for it! Then write a blog about your experience.

]]> By: Markymark223 http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/comment-page-1/#comment-5 Markymark223 Thu, 15 Oct 2009 03:18:48 +0000 http://nicolearbour.com/?p=173#comment-5 The way you present both sides to every argument while still being funny and somehow impartial is insanely great. The way you present both sides to every argument while still being funny and somehow impartial is insanely great.

]]> By: Wildride http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/comment-page-1/#comment-4 Wildride Thu, 15 Oct 2009 01:27:24 +0000 http://nicolearbour.com/?p=173#comment-4 Let's see: Unattractive girls don't get roofied because they're already expected to put out for guys that show them any attention at all, but just arean't worth roofie-ing over. It doesn't matter which ones are intelligent because guys are only gonna listen to the attractive ones anyway. Who cares if they're down to earth since a good personality counts against you? Attractive people are always promoted ahead of unattractive ones, so it doesn't matter who is more reliable. The unattractive ones actually have to be sluts or are otherwise going to be ignored. Unattractive girls are judged far more harshly on their looks and their contributions are marginalized. If unattractive girls are getting asked out it's because they are being judged on their looks in that they are determined to be "low hanging fruit" (easily attainable and thus easily disposable). Unattractive girls certainly do get raped. Skinny girls can't eat, lest they be judged for it. Fat girls are already being judged harshly for it. Unattractive girls know for certain their guys can do better. Let’s see:

Unattractive girls don’t get roofied because they’re already expected to put out for guys that show them any attention at all, but just arean’t worth roofie-ing over. It doesn’t matter which ones are intelligent because guys are only gonna listen to the attractive ones anyway. Who cares if they’re down to earth since a good personality counts against you? Attractive people are always promoted ahead of unattractive ones, so it doesn’t matter who is more reliable. The unattractive ones actually have to be sluts or are otherwise going to be ignored. Unattractive girls are judged far more harshly on their looks and their contributions are marginalized. If unattractive girls are getting asked out it’s because they are being judged on their looks in that they are determined to be “low hanging fruit” (easily attainable and thus easily disposable). Unattractive girls certainly do get raped. Skinny girls can’t eat, lest they be judged for it. Fat girls are already being judged harshly for it. Unattractive girls know for certain their guys can do better.

]]> By: Kate http://nicolearbour.com/2009/10/14/is-the-world-easier-for-pretty-people/comment-page-1/#comment-3 Kate Thu, 15 Oct 2009 00:47:02 +0000 http://nicolearbour.com/?p=173#comment-3 I love you Nicole. I love you Nicole.

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