So I was lucky enough to start my day today with the morning show team at Playboy Radio here in LA.
I always have a blast doing interviews all over the world but there’s just something extra fun about being on a show where they randomly play “Guess the Tattoo” with me, and the chat topics range from sports, to a guy who enjoys wearing panties, to have you ever messed around with a girl within a few sentences. And, of course it’s always good times when the hosts are funny, cute, and seem like people you’d totally be friends with.
So… onto my topic for today that sprung from a conversation we had on the show.
Would you rather be hot or funny Nicole?
My answer was… FUNNY.
They asked: “Really? Try telling the little fat girl that it’s not important to be pretty in this world, and that you don’t and haven’t gotten a ton of opportunities because you’re hot.”
And here comes my thoughts, that I shared in part with them on the topic of: IS THE WORLD EASIER FOR PRETTY PEOPLE?
My answer: NO.
I firmly believe that everyone, yes everyone, has a completely equal lot in life, and life always finds a way of balancing itself out.
Yes… really.
And I’m sure someone is ready to throw something at me right now, but hold the phones oh hot headed ones at least until you let me explain… and what better way to explain anything than a CHART! I love charts!
ok.
“PRETTY GIRLS” VS “UNATTRACTIVE GIRLS”*
*I put those both in quotes because beauty is so subjective and always in the eye of the beholder.
| PRETTY GIRLS | UNATTRACTIVE GIRLS | |
| Get into clubs for free and | Don’t have to worry about getting roofied | |
| get free drinks from skeezy | (I personally think I’m immune from having | |
| club owners n dudes | them so many times), aren’t expected | |
| to put out to every douche who puts a | ||
| vodka shot in front of them. | ||
| Assumed to be stupid. | Assumed to be intelligent. | |
| Assumed to be self-absorbed | Assumed to be nice, and down to earth. | |
| bitches. | ||
| Aren’t taken seriously in the | Are frequently looked upon as reliable, | |
| workplace, achievements | focused, and in power positions. | |
| written off as “only because | ||
| they’re hot, they must be | ||
| sleeping with…” | ||
| Called sluts because men | Call pretty girls sluts because men look at | |
| look at them. | them. | |
| Worth becomes easily based | Worth is based on what they contribute as | |
| on their looks. | a person, co-worker, friend etc… | |
| Get asked out a lot. | May not get asked out as much but get to | |
| know that the ones they do date like them | ||
| for them, not their tits. | ||
| Get stalked, raped, or worse. | Nope. | |
| Worry about weight, eating | Get to indulge and eat their feelings | |
| right, working out constantly | whenever they want. | |
| and sometimes obsessively. | ||
| Can fear the superficial dicks | Know their guys can’t do better. | |
| they might marry will trade | ||
| them in for a younger | ||
| model when they start to | ||
| wrinkle. |
Obviously I’m messing around with this, but I think ya’ll can get my point.
There’s two sides to every coin and at the end of the day, people are people and we’re all just trying to make our way through this crazy superficial world while learning lessons and having a good time.
Be nice, be cool, be fair, be funny.
Love ya all,
Nicole xoxo 
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6 Comments » | October 14th, 2009
